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5,000 Against Silence A Challenge for Survivors | Supporting DRASACS Doncaster Hey everyone — I’m Ryan Gadsby, survivor, advocate, and founder of The Edge of the Bed community. From 7th October to 7th November, I’ll be taking on 5,000 chin-ups — about 167 a day — to raise £5,000 for DRASACS (Doncaster Rape & Sexual Abuse Counselling Service). This is more than a fundraiser. It’s a stand against silence. It’s a tribute. My Story Between the ages of 8 and 12, I was sexually abused by my stepdad.For years, I lived in silence — carrying shame, fear, and confusion that too many survivors know. But another young man, abused by the same person who abused me, never got the chance to break his silence. He tragically ended his life before he could see justice. This challenge, 5,000 Against Silence, is inspired by him. It’s for every survivor who didn’t get the chance to be heard. Turning Pain Into Action After breaking my silence, I created The Edge of the Bed — an online survivor community where people can talk honestly about trauma and healing, especially in the moments that feel most isolating. I now work on Prevention Pathways, focusing on education and safeguarding — because prevention starts with conversation, and conversation starts with breaking silence. But my heart remains with survivors who are still carrying their pain alone. This challenge is for them. 💚 Why DRASACS I chose DRASACS because I believe deeply in survivor support. They also provided support to me after I spoke out. They provide free, confidential counselling and advocacy for people affected by sexual abuse and violence — the kind of support that can save lives and help survivors rebuild. 🏋️‍♂️ The Challenge 🗓 7 October → 7 November 2025 🎯 5,000 Chin-Ups = £5,000 Goal 🔥 Around 167 a Day 💚 Every Rep Against Silence Each rep is a tribute to survivors who are still here — and to those who never got the chance to speak. Each rep is a reminder that strength isn’t just physical — it’s courage, solidarity, and voice. 🙌 How You Can Join the Fight Donate: Every pound supports DRASACS and their incredible work. Share: Help raise awareness — especially for male survivors. Join In: Take your own “Against Silence” challenge during this time — 5,000 steps, words, or reps — whatever fighting silence means to you. Tag It: #5000AgainstSilence 🖤 A Final Word I’ve done fundraisers before, but this one is different. It’s not about chin-ups. It’s about voice. It’s about life. It’s about those who didn’t get to break their silence, and those who still can. Every 7th of October to 7th of November, I will do this challenge to remind survivors — and the world — that we are stronger than silence. Together, we are 5,000 Against Silence. — Ryan Gadsby 💚 #5000AgainstSilence #DRASACS #TheEdgeOfTheBed #PreventionPathways #MaleSurvivors #EndTheSilence #SurvivorStrong #CharityChallenge

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