Today Rosamund isn't tending to the garden, and the memories of the great life she's had fade like the flowers she's left behind. She has late-stage dementia and is doing well if she remembers to drink. She recognises for moments but they're transient thoughts and talks. Like a magic 8-ball you'll get a different answer each time you ask a question.
You have to learn to laugh to save being swallowed by how depressing it is. But depressing it is. Alzheimer's is a horrible disease that robs a person of what makes them, them. Going from interacting with someone on a near-daily basis for two decades to interacting like strangers. It doesn't stop on an emotional level, as currently she can't remember to feed herself among other things. Eating a bread roll becomes a fifteen minute task as you have to remind her it's there after every bite.
One day, people might not have to lose people they love in this manner. This is a day I would love to see come, and one ARUK has been working towards since 1992.
Please help me raise money to support Alzheimer's Research UK in the brilliant work they do. Thank you.
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